My complete life I’ve tried to be a folks pleaser. To do something and every little thing to make folks comfortable, to make them keep. Possibly that stems from my abandonment points, my worry that everybody I like will go away.
I’m flawed in so some ways. I don’t all the time brush my hair, most days I rise up for work 30 minutes earlier than I want to depart, my pores and skin isn’t clear, and my outfits aren’t all the time deliberate. I’m not an ideal individual, however then once more, I’ve by no means claimed to be.
Earlier than I say extra, I need to say goodbye, and thanks. Thanks to all the individuals who by no means believed in me, to everybody who left and determined I wasn’t well worth the bother. I additionally need to thank everybody who was there, who all the time had my again, who stayed by my facet whereas I discovered who I used to be.
However when you’re studying this, it’s too late… The woman you knew earlier than is gone. You crushed her confidence and made her consider she wasn’t ok, you made her consider she would by no means be ok.
You don’t know me anymore.
This woman bought up. This woman is wise and delightful. This woman has individuals who love and assist her. This woman has confidence and is set to do one thing together with her life. No person’s stopping this woman—she’s on fireplace.
This woman is greater than sufficient.
She’s higher than the jealous women and fragile males who unfold rumors about her. She’s higher than the voices in her head that inform her she gained’t make it.
This woman is loving and type. She is profitable and can make one thing of herself, it doesn’t matter what it takes.
Should you’ve come to seek out the outdated me, she’s gone. It’s too late.