Amy is my greatest buddy and it’s at all times been a whole thriller to me why she is at all times single. She’s 34, skinny, fairly fairly, employed, and a great household woman. She has a giant chuckle, numerous persona, and loves intercourse. Feels like spouse materials, proper?
Anyhow she’s been in a brand new relationship for a few yr and I feel she goes to marry this man. In all methods he’s simply ok. I wouldn’t be into him, however no matter, I’m glad she is glad. And he or she is glad. They’re speaking about marriage.
The issue is that I’m fairly positive this man is making an attempt to hook up with random women on Tinder.
Let me clarify. I made a dummy Fb account for my Tinder as a result of I simply received out of a really lengthy, very shitty relationship and I’m very a lot not interested by courting, however I miss intercourse. In order that’s what my Tinder is for. I’ve a pair physique photographs on it, however you’ll be able to’t see my face
Whereas I used to be swiping, I got here throughout somebody who regarded and terrible lot like Amy’s boyfriend, however like me, his face was obscured (although, from what I might inform, I’d guess it’s him). He has a reasonably distinctive identify, and the identify and age matched. The tone from what he mentioned in his bio additionally matched the best way this man talks. He mentioned, explicitly, that he’s searching for NSA intercourse. We matched. He messaged me, “hello.”
I don’t suppose it’s utterly out of the query that it’s a giant coincidence, however that makes it more durable to determine what to do. One one hand I’m wondering if I ought to message him and fake to associate with what he’s saying, lengthy sufficient to get proof that it’s Amy’s boyfriend after which inform her? I actually, actually don’t need to do that however I’m wondering if I’m obligated to. Except one thing goes off target, my buddy goes to marry this man and he’s going to cheat on her for no purpose, ceaselessly, till they most likely have an sad divorce.
However, is it actually any of my enterprise? I don’t need Amy to shoot the messenger and hate me as a result of I uncovered her boyfriend as a bizarre cheater. I actually don’t need to get in the midst of this or be concerned in any drama. However I’m wondering if I’m obligated to, is that this actually one thing I can maintain quiet about or will I remorse it in the event that they get married and it ends badly — and I might have given her info to keep away from that destiny.
What ought to I do?